He looks back and forth between the two movies for a second, but then, brows furrowed, he decides that question is worth more of his attention.

"No, it's more complicated than that, it's not just to look out for them, it's – a commitment to fulfilling someone else's need for balance and emotional support," he gestures with his hands, "when you know you trust them to be the same for you. You can look out for your matesprit," the word as ever sounds out of place in the middle of an English sentence, "but it's weird if you're spending all your time talking about feelings with them and crying on each other, okay."